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Agasti 24, 2023
Phantse wonke umntu ukhe wayiva ikati ifuyoza ngaxa lithile. Amaxesha amaninzi abantu bayaxhalaba xa beva ikati yabo ikhala. Ndikhe ndeva iikati zibhalwe 'njengezimbi' okanye 'zimbi' okanye 'zinomsindo' ukuba ziyafutha. Inyaniso kukuba, NAYIPHI na ikati iya kwenza umsondlo phantsi kweemeko ezifanelekileyo, kwaye namhlanje ndifuna ukuba uqonde into enye: I-his AYIYOnto imbi. Xa ikati ifutha, ithi 'hayi' okanye 'ihlehliswe' okanye 'andiyithandi loo nto'. Kukho iimeko ezininzi ezahlukeneyo apho ikati inokufutha; ngamanye amaxesha, kufuneka sisebenze ngeenxa zonke- ngathi ukuba ikati kwi vet kwaye bayoyika kodwa kufuneka inkqubo ebalulekileyo eyenziwe- kodwa ixesha elininzi, xa ikati efutha, oko kuthetha ukuba kufuneka ukuphulaphula kubo kwaye uyeke. wenza ntoni. Ndibone iividiyo ezininzi zentsholongwane apho umntu engcolisa ikati yakhe ngandlel’ ithile- eboyikisa ngento ethile, eyixhokonxa, okanye eyibambe ikwindawo engathandekiyo- kwaye xa ikati itswina, umntu uyahleka kwaye aqhubeke esenza le nto ayiyo. ukwenza. Ndicinga ukuba ezi vidiyo zichasene nokuhlekisa- zikhohlakele kwaye zilusizi. Ndikhe ndabona abantu bephendula ikati yabo ngokuyikhwaza, okanye ukuyibetha kancinci, ngokungathi bakholelwa ukuba umsondlo 'yisimilo esingalunganga' esenziwa yikati. Kufuneka eneneni SIFUNA iikati zethu ziphose xa zingonwabanga zizinto ezenzekayo. Yeyona ndlela ibalaseleyo yonxibelelwano kuba mhlawumbi abayi kukwazi ukufunda ukuthetha igama elithi 'hayi' nangaliphi na ixesha kungekudala. Ukuba i-his ingahoywa, kumaxesha amaninzi xa iikati ziya kuqhubeka ngokuswayitha, ukuluma, okanye ukuhlasela ngenye indlela- kwaye andibasoli ngaloo nto. Ukuba SIQHUBEKA singayihoyi i-hises yeekati zethu, ngoko banokuyeka ukuzenza xa bekhathazekile- kwaye endaweni yoko baye ngqo kwindawo yokuluma. Ngokuqinisekileyo asifuni ukubaqeqesha ukuba bayeke ukunxibelelana! Iikati, ewe, nazo ziya kutswinelana xa ixesha lifuna oko. Nyusa ivolyum yakho kwaye ubukele ividiyo ebandakanyiweyo njengomzekelo. Ezi kati zimbini yiPirate kunye neLitty, ngoku ziyafumaneka ukuze zamkelwe kwindawo yethu yokuhlala yaseSanta Rosa. Baphuma kwikhaya elinye kwaye bahlala kakuhle, kodwa ngamanye amaxesha uPirate uchitha ixesha elininzi kakhulu ekwiqamza likaLitty. Indlela amazisa ngayo ukuba ufuna indawo kukumtswinela- aze aphendule athi nqumama, ajike ahambe. Olu lunxibelelwano OMKHULU- uPirate wawuhloniphile umnqweno kaLitty, kwaye ke imeko ayizange inyuke nokuba yikati ebhuqa enye. Le nto inye iyasebenza nakwiikati zakho- ndithetha nabantu abaxhalabileyo xa iikati zabo zifutha enye kwenye, kwaye into endihlala ndiyibuza kukuba kwenzekani EMVA kokuvela kwe-his. Ukuba iikati zahlukana ngeendlela, konke okwenzekileyo kwakunokwenzeka ukuba iseshoni yokudlala ibe qatha kakhulu kwenye yeekati, kwaye zaxelela enye 'hayi', kwaye akukho mcimbi ukuba enye ikati imamele. Ukuba enye ikati ayikuhloniphi i-his kwaye iyaqhubeka nokuzama ukunxibelelana nekati eyakhalisa, kulapho kukho umba onzulu ekuya kufuneka ulungise (kwaye ukuba uyazibuza, ezinye zezinto eziphambili omawuzenze ekulweni. Iikati ekhaya kukwandisa ixesha lokudlala, ukwandisa ubutyebi obunikelwayo, kunye nokuqinisekisa izixhobo ezaneleyo ezifana nokutya, amanzi, kunye neebhokisi zenkunkuma ziyafumaneka kumntu wonke). Ukuziphatha kwebali kuku- hlonipha ikati efuthayo! Kanye njengokuba sifuna abanye abantu basihlonele xa sisithi ‘hayi’ kwinto ethile, kufuneka sizihlonele iikati zethu xa zisithi ‘hayi’ ngendlela yazo!
Agasti 24, 2023
Wonke umntu onekati kuye kwenzeka kuye: bathengela isilo-qabane sabo into yokudlala eyonwabisayo okanye umthi wekati, bawuzise ekhaya kwaye bawumise- kuphela ukuba ikati yakho iye ngqo kwibhokisi engene kuyo endaweni yoko. Ngoko kutheni iikati zithanda iibhokisi kakhulu? Ubudlelwane beekati kwiibhokisi kusenokwenzeka ukuba busekelwe kwithuku labo lendalo. Iikati zombini zixhoba kunye nezilwanyana, kwaye iibhokisi zinokunceda ukuzalisekisa iimfuno eziza nokuba zombini ezo zinto. Ukusuka kwimbono yexhoba, ibhokisi ibonelela ngokufihla amehlo- alungele ukufihlwa. Ngesi sizathu sinye, iikati zisenokutsalwa kwiibhokisi ngokwembono yerhamncwa. Uninzi lweekati zizixhwanguxhwanguxhwangu, okuthetha ukuba zilalela kwindawo efihlakeleyo de kufike umzuzu ochanekileyo, emva koko zitsibe. Ungalusebenzisa olu lwazi kuncedo lwakho ngexesha lokudlala ukugcina ikati yakho ibandakanyeka ngakumbi- ukuba ingena ebhokisini, zama ukutsala kancinci kancinci into yokudlala uze ubone ukuba kwenzeka ntoni. Sonke siye sabona iikati zizama ukuzifaka kwiibhokisi ezincinci kakhulu kubo. Esinye isizathu soku kukuba bafuna ukufudumala. Xa sizigquma ngeengubo, zinceda ukubuyisela ubushushu bomzimba wethu kuthi- iikati zingenza okufanayo ngeebhokisi, kwaye ibhokisi encinci, ingcono! Ikati yakho isenokuba idlala ngokudlalayo-mhlawumbi bancamathele inzipho zabo kuloo bhokisi yethishu encinci kakhulu kuba ithuku labo liyabaxelela ukuba iya kuba yindawo entle yokufihla impuku. Kukwakho into enika umdla iikati ezininzi ezizenzayo- ziya kuhlala kwibhokisi ekhohlisayo. Beka iteyiphu emhlabeni kwisangqa esivaliweyo okanye isikwere, kwaye ikati yakho inokuhamba nje ihlale phakathi kwayo. Okanye mhlawumbi wenza ibhedi yakho kusasa, uze ubeke ihempe esongiweyo okanye ibhulukhwe phezu kwengubo kuphela ukuba ujike kwaye ufumane ikati yakho igoqwe phezulu. Kukho iingcamango ezimbalwa zokuba kutheni le nto ingaba. Enye kukuba iikati zijonga kude kakhulu: azikwazi ukubona izinto kakuhle kufutshane. Ke mhlawumbi ngokubona nje ulwandlalo 'lwebhokisi', bacinga ukuba ngokwenene bangaphakathi kwento ephakamise imiphetho. Ukongeza, xa ikati ihleli kwinto ethile, yindlela yabo 'yokubanga' ngayo. Iikati zihlala zifuna indawo yazo ukuba ivumba njengazo, ngoko ke into entsha enokuthi ibange ngayo njengendlela elula yokuhlala kuyo inomdla kakhulu kubo. Kwimeko yempahla, ngenxa yokuba ivumba lomntu wabo (wena), banomdla kakhulu ekuxubeni ivumba labo kunye nelakho njengoko libanceda bazive bekhululekile kwaye bekhuselekile. Musa ukuxhalaba kakhulu ukuba ufumana loo mthi wekati ubiza kakhulu kwaye ikati yakho ibonakala ingayihoyi ngokuthanda ibhokisi- iibhokisi ziyinto elula, ekhawulezayo yokutyebisa iikati ezonwabelayo kwaye ziyazi ukuba zenzeni kwangoko, kodwa zinokufumana. iyadika ngokuhamba kwexesha. Umthi wekati utyalo-mali olutyebileyo lwexesha elide, kwaye emva kokuba baqhelane nayo ikati yakho iya kukhula ukuyithanda. Unokubanceda ukuba bayonwabele into yabo entsha ngokukhawuleza ngokushiya izinto eziphathwayo, ikati, okanye iithoyi eziqhelekileyo kuyo okanye ecaleni kwayo, okanye usebenzisa ithoyizi ye-wand ukubakhuthaza ukuba badlale kuyo.
Agasti 24, 2023
Uninzi lwabantu bekati lunike ikati yabo ngaxa lithile, kwaye impendulo yabo ihlala imnandi ukuyibukela! Ukuvuselela ivumba kuhlala kungahoywa ngeefelines, kwaye ndincoma kakhulu ukubandakanya rhoqo kuphuculo olunikezela kwiikati zakho. Nazi ezinye izinto onokuzazi ukunika umhlobo wakho oyinkazana amava onwabe kangangoko.
Agasti 24, 2023
Wonke umntu ubhiyozela olu suku ngokwahlukileyo- ukupheka ukutya, ukudubula i-grill, ukuba nenkampani ngaphezulu- kodwa nokuba unemisebenzi yero ecwangcisiweyo, kunokwenzeka ngakumbi kunokuba kungenjalo, uya kukwazi ukuva iziqhumane apho ukhoyo- kwaye kuya kuba njalo. ikati yakho. Yintoni onokuyenza ukuze ugcine ikati yakho ikhuselekile kwaye yonwabile kule holide?
Agasti 24, 2023
Ndikhe ndabhala izithuba ngaphambili malunga nokunceda iikati ezineentloni zihlale kwikhaya lakho, kodwa kuthekani ngeekati 'eziqhelekileyo'? Ngaphandle kwezinye iikati eziphumayo ngokwenene neziqinisekileyo, zonke iikati ziza kuthatha ixesha lokuziva zisekhaya kunye nawe kwaye zilungelelanise indawo yazo entsha. Kwilizwe lokhuseleko lwezilwanyana, sinento esiyibiza ngokuba '3-3-3 Guidelines', enika ulwazi ngokubanzi malunga nento omele uyilindele kwiintsuku ezi-3 zokuqala, kwiiveki ezi-3 zokuqala, nakwiinyanga ezi-3 zokuqala emva kokuthatha ikati. . Gcina ukhumbula ukuba ezi zikhokelo- zonke ikati ziya kulungelelanisa ngokwahlukileyo. Ukuba uthatha enye yezo felines super ephumayo, ezithembileyo, mhlawumbi baya kulungelelanisa ngokukhawuleza kakhulu; ukuba ufumana ikati eneentloni kakhulu, kuya kuthatha ixesha elide. Izinto ezixoxiwe apha zezokuzilindela kwikati 'ephakathi', ke ungakhathazeki ukuba ilungu losapho lwakho elitsha lihlengahlengisa ngesantya esahlukileyo kancinci. Iintsuku ezintathu zokuqala onokuzilindela: Iintsuku ezintathu zokuqala kwindawo entsha zinokothusa, kwaye ikati yakho iya kuba ncinane emphethweni, kwaye mhlawumbi ifune ukufihla- ewe, nokuba babenothando xa udibana nabo kwindawo yokuhlala. . Mabangadli, bangaseli kakhulu, okanye ebusuku kuphela; ukuba abatyi okanye abaseli, abanakusebenzisa ibhokisi yenkunkuma, okanye banokuyisebenzisa ebusuku kuphela okanye xa bebodwa. Abayi kuziva bekhululekile ngokwaneleyo ukubonisa ubuntu babo bokwenyani. Omawukwenze: Zigcine zivalelwe kwigumbi elinye ekhayeni lakho. Igumbi lokulala, iofisi, okanye elinye igumbi elizolileyo lifanelekile; amagumbi okuhlambela okanye amagumbi okuhlamba impahla okanye amanye amagumbi anokungxola kwaye axakeke ayilona khetho lungcono. Khetha igumbi ongenalo 'umda wexesha' malunga nokuba bangahlala ixesha elingakanani kulo; ukuba unelungu losapho eliza kutyelela kwiiveki ezimbini kwaye kuya kufuneka ukuba ube kwigumbi lakho lokulala leendwendwe ngaphandle kwekati, KUFUNEKA ungasebenzisi elo gumbi leendwendwe njengesiseko sekhaya lekati yakho entsha! Naliphi na igumbi olikhethayo, qiniseka ukuba uvala zonke iindawo zokufihla ezi-BAD- phantsi kwebhedi, ngasemva kwegumbi, naphantsi kwebhedi yonke imizekelo yeendawo ezimbi zokufihla. UFUNA ukubonelela ngeendawo ezizifihlayo EZILUNGILEYO ezifana neebhedi zekati zomqolomba, iibhokisi zekhadibhodi (ungade usike imingxuma ngobuchule ukwenza ulungiselelo oluncinci olumangalisayo), okanye iingubo ezigqunywe phezu kwesitulo esivuleleke ngaphantsi. Ufuna ukuqiniseka ukuba naphi na apho bafihla khona, uya kukwazi ukuzifumana ngokulula kwaye usebenzisane nabo (xa sele belungile). Kwezi ntsuku zimbalwa zokuqala, ukuba ikati yakho ifihla lonke ixesha, xhoma egumbini kodwa unganyanzeli ingqalelo kubo. Eli lixesha elihle lokuziqhelanisa nesandi selizwi lakho, indlela onuka ngayo, kunye nobukho bakho ngokubanzi. Qiniseka ukuba ubabonelela ngayo yonke into abayidingayo kweli gumbi lokuqalisa: Ibhokisi yenkunkuma okanye ezimbini (ezigcinwe kude nokutya namanzi); umkrweli; indawo yokulala; indawo ethe nkqo njengomthi wekati; kunye nezinye izinto zokudlala kunye nezinto zokutyebisa. Kanye nje, kufuneka uzame ukuseka inkqubo yexesha lokutya: Ndincoma kakhulu ukuba ukhethe amaxesha amisiweyo suku ngalunye kwaye unikeze izidlo ngamaxesha athile oya kuba nakho ukunamathela kwixesha elide. Ubuncinci kabini ngemini yinto ekufuneka ujolise kuyo; kathathu ngemini kungcono ngakumbi ukuba isebenza kwishedyuli yakho! Iiveki ezi-3 zokuqala Yintoni onokuyilindela: Ikati yakho kufuneka iqalise ukuzinza kwaye ilungele indlela yokutya; kufuneka batye, basele kwaye basebenzise ibhokisi yenkunkuma yonke imihla bakhona kwaye bazame ukuzenza bazive besekhaya. Baza kuqalisa ukubonisa ubuntu babo bokwenyani ngakumbi, baya kukuthemba ngakumbi, kwaye baya kudlala ngakumbi kwaye basebenzise ngakumbi ubutyebi babo (nokuba kuxa ungekho egumbini). Omawukwenze: Qhubeka uhleli nekati yakho egumbini; ukuba abanazo iintloni kakhulu, baya kuza kuwe befuna ukuhoywa, okanye bakulungele ukukuvumela ukuba uye kubo kwindawo yabo ekhuselekileyo ukuze unike izilwanyana zasekhaya ezimfutshane (hamba nje kancinci uze ubavumele barhole isandla sakho kuqala, okanye ubanyobe. ngesidlo esimnandi). Qhubeka nenkqubo yexesha lokutya, ubone ukuba baya kudlala nawe na, kwaye uhlengahlengise igumbi njengoko lifuneka ngayo nantoni na oyifumeneyo ukuba ayisebenzi- mhlawumbi UCINGA ukuba ucango lwegunjana luvalwe ngokukhuselekileyo kodwa bafumana indlela yokuzenza intshulube. ngaphakathi; okanye mhlawumbi bakrwela i-armchair, kwaye kufuneka uzame uhlobo olwahlukileyo lwe-scratcher kwaye uyibeke ecaleni kweso situlo sengalo. Ukuba abasebenzisi ukutyebisa okanye ukuphuma ngelixa usegumbini kunye nabo kwaye unexhala, khangela iimpawu ezibonisa ukuba basebenzisa izinto: iithoyi zishukunyiswa, iimpawu zozipho kwimikrwelo yazo, izinto ezinkqonkqozwayo. ukusuka kwishelufu ephezulu, njl. Zonke ezi ziimpawu ezilungileyo. Ukuba bayatya, basela, kwaye basebenzisa ibhokisi yenkunkuma ngeli nqanaba, yonke into iya kuhamba kakuhle! Ukuba ikati yakho sele isebenza ngokuzithemba, ngoko ke ukuba awunaso nasiphi na esinye isilwanyana, qhubeka uvule ucango kwaye ubavumele bacinge ngokuhlola ikhaya lakho lonke. Ukuba ikhaya lakho likhulu kakhulu, okanye linamagumbi athile ongafuni kuzikhathaza ngawo, cinga ngokugcina iingcango zivaliwe ekuqaleni- umzekelo, ukuba zikwigumbi lakho lokulala leendwendwe kwaye igumbi lakho lokulala eliqhelekileyo lineNENE. ikhabethe elinomtsalane elinemingxuma emininzi efihlakeleyo, gcina ucango lwakho lwegumbi lokulala luvaliwe okwangoku. Eyona nto ibalulekileyo omele uyikhumbule kukuba UNGAWUVALI ucango lwegumbi labo 'elikhuselekileyo'- eliye lasekwa njengendawo apho batyiswa khona, apho inkunkuma yabo ikhoyo, kwaye iyanuka njengabo kwaye yile nto bayiqhelileyo. Kufuneka bakhululeke ukubaleka babuyele kuyo ukuba bayonakaliswa! Ungaze ubanyanzele ukuba baphume kwigumbi, nokuba- balinde ukuba bathathe isigqibo sokuzihlola ngokwabo. Ukuba unezinye izilwanyana, kunokuba uvule indlu kwikati yakho entsha, kulapho uya kuba nakho ukuqala inkqubo yokwazisa, onokufumana ulwazi oluthe kratya apha: https://humanesocietysoco.org/wp -content/uploads/2022/02/HSSC_Cat-Cat-Intros_2020-12.pdf kwezinye iikati, kwaye apha: https://humanesocietysoco.org/wp-content/uploads/2020/12/HSSC_Dog-Cat-Intros_2020-12- .pdf yezinja. Qiniseka ukuba ulinde de ikati yakho ibonakala iqinisekile kwigumbi labo elinye ngaphambi kokuba uqale iintshayelelo; iikati ezineentloni kakhulu zinokuthatha ixesha elingaphezu kweeveki ezi-3 ngaphambi kokuba uqalise. Iinyanga ezi-3 nangaphezulu Into omawuyilindele: Ikati yakho iya kuba sele ilungelelanise indlela yakho yesiqhelo yokuza nokuhamba, kwaye iya kulindela ukutya ngamaxesha azo aqhelekileyo okutya. Baya kuziva bezithembile kwaye babe nemvakalelo yobunini kunye nawe kunye nekhaya lakho, kwaye bazive ngathi balapho. Bamele badlale kwaye babe nomdla kwizinto zokudlala kunye nokutyebisa, kwaye nobabini kunye nabo baya kuziva bebotshiwe kunye nomnye oya kuqhubeka ekhula! Omawukwenze: Nandipha ubomi ngekati yakho entsha! Uninzi lweekati luya kulungelelaniswa ngokufanelekileyo kumanqaku eenyanga ezintathu; Ungaqalisa ukususa izinto zabo kwigumbi labo 'elikhuselekileyo' uye kwikhaya lakho liphela: misela indawo entsha ofuna ukubondla, beka ibhedi yekati abayithandayo kwigumbi lokulala elahlukileyo, kunye nesikrwala abasithandayo ecaleni kwebhedi yakho. - ukubazisa ukuba bakwindlu YONKE, hayi nje igumbi labo elinye! Ukuba kukho nantoni na ekhethekileyo ofuna ukuyenza kunye nabo-njengoqeqesho lokubopha ukuze ukwazi ukuhamba nabo, okanye ubafundise ukuya kwi-high five- eli lixesha elihle lokuqalisa inkqubo, njengoko uqeqesho oluqinisayo luya kunceda ukuqinisa ubudlelwane obubakhayo. Ukuba awukayiqalisi inkqubo yokwazisa ikati yakho entsha kuzo naziphi na ezinye izilwanyana onazo, kufuneka uqale! Ngaphandle kokuba uxelelwe ngexesha lokuthathwa komntwana ukuba le yikati eneentloni kakhulu okanye yoyika kakhulu, akufuneki bachithe ixesha labo elininzi ezifihla (nangona kuqhelekile ukuba iikati zilale okanye zijinga kwimingxunya efihlakeleyo, okanye zonakaliswe iindwendwe / iminyhadala kwaye ubuyela okwethutyana ekuzifihleni). Ukuba ikati yakho isabonakala isoyika kakhulu, ilumkele naliphi na ilungu lentsapho yakho, okanye ibonisa ezinye iindlela zokuziphatha eziphathelele wena, fikelela kwindawo yokuhlala apho uye wamkelwa khona ukuze ufumane uncedo.
Agasti 24, 2023
Kule veki ndingathanda ukuthetha ngokuzisa ikati entsha ekhayeni lakho xa sele unezinye izilwanyana. Ngaphambi kokuba uthathe isigqibo sokwamkela ikati xa sele unezinye izilwanyana, qwalasela icala elisebenzayo lezinto. Ngokuqinisekileyo ndingumntu oHLALA efuna iikati ezininzi- kodwa ndiyaqonda ukuba ndisemdeni kwindawo yam yokuhlala. Akukho ndawo yaneleyo yokuba ndibonelele ngeebhokisi zenkunkuma ezaneleyo, izitya zamanzi ezaneleyo, indawo ethe nkqo eyaneleyo, okanye enye into eyaneleyo yokugcina ngaphezulu kweekati ezintathu esele ndonwabile. Ngaphandle kwezibonelelo ezongezelelweyo zexesha elide oya kuzifuna ikati eyongezelelweyo, kuya kufuneka ucinge malunga nokuba indawo yabo yokuqala yohlengahlengiso iya kuba phi. Iikati zizakuthatha ixesha lokuhlala kwikhaya labo elitsha, kwaye uya kufuna igumbi elihle elipholileyo ukuze uzibeke apho ezinye izilwanyana ezisekhaya zingayi kuba nako ukufikelela kuzo, njengokuba ikati yakho entsha izithembile. kwaye ulungele ukuphonononga yonke indlu ukusuka kusuku lokuqala, kuya kufuneka uzigcine zizimele de ube nethuba lokwenza iintshayelelo ezifanelekileyo kunye nezinye izilwanyana zakho. Abantu abaninzi bacinga ukuba igumbi lokuhlambela liyindawo efanelekileyo yokuseka ikati entsha; ngelixa ubenze bathathe indawo yakho yokuhlambela isenokungavakali iphazamise ixesha elifutshane, kufuneka ulungiselele ukuba igumbi oza kulisebenzisa linokuba sisiseko sabo esingundoqo seeveki, okanye iinyanga, kuxhomekeke kwindlela iintshayelelo ezihamba kakuhle ngayo. Izindlu zokuhlambela aziqhelekanga ukwenza indawo epholileyo, ekhuselekileyo yekati- kunokuba nzima ukufaka umthi wekati, ibhokisi yenkunkuma, ukutya kunye namanzi, imingxuma efihlakeleyo, kunye nezinto zokudlala. Ukuba unethamsanqa ngokwaneleyo ukuba ube negumbi lokuhlambela elikhulu, inokuba lukhetho oluhle kwisiseko sekhaya lekati yakho entsha, kodwa ukusebenzisa igumbi lokulala okanye indawo yeofisi okanye enye into efana nale idla ngokuba lukhetho olungcono. (Hlala ubukele isithuba seCaturday esizayo esithetha ngakumbi malunga nokunceda ikati entsha izinze kwikhaya lakho.) Ngoku, makhe sithethe ngakumbi malunga neentshayelelo. Ukungenzi iintshayelelo ezifanelekileyo phakathi kwezilwanyana mhlawumbi yenye yezona mpazamo zixhaphakileyo ezenziwa ngabantu. Abantu basoloko benomnqweno wokungxama kubo- kwaye ndiyayifumana, bangumsebenzi omninzi! Ndicinga ukuba sonke siyivile i-anecdote emntwini malunga nokwamkela ikati entsha, eyiphosa kwigumbi nenye ikati yabo, kwaye ngoku bangabahlobo abakhulu. Oku akufanele kube yinto elindelekileyo, kwaye ANDIZE ndicebise ukuba iintshayelelo zenziwe ngolu hlobo- kukho umngcipheko omkhulu wokwenzakala, nokuba sesinye okanye zombini isilwanyana, kwaye kunokwenzeka nakuwe ukuba ungene embindini wesilwanyana. ingxabano. Kukho nokuba kunokwenzeka ukuba izilwanyana ziya kubonakala ngathi zamkelana ekuqaleni, ngenxa yokuba zididekile, zothukile, okanye ngenye indlela nje aziqondi ukuba kuqhubeka ntoni na ukuze zisabele kuyo, kwaye emva kweentsuku ezimbalwa imiba iya kuthi. vuka. Eyona ndlela ilungileyo yokusombulula iingxaki phakathi kwezilwanyana zakho kukuthintela ukuba zingenzeki kwasekuqaleni- ukuba uleqa izinto kwasekuqaleni kwaye izilwanyana zakho azithandani, kunokuba nzima KAKHULU ukulungisa izinto kwaye uqale ngokutsha. Ukuba ngokwenene uzifumana unezilwanyana ezimbini ezilula eziya kuthandana ngokukhawuleza, uya kukwazi ukubethwa ngumoya ngamanyathelo esingeniso. Ukuqinisekisa uxolo lwexesha elide, kungcono ukuba wena kunye nezilwanyana zakho nibambelele kwindlela ezanyiweyo neyinyani yokwazisa.
Agasti 25, 2023
Kule veki ndingathanda ukuthetha malunga nokuba kutheni ngamanye amaxesha sikhetha ukuthatha iikati ngababini! Sihlala sifumana iikati kwindawo yethu yokuhlala esele behlala kunye. Ngamanye amaxesha sinolwazi oluvela kubantu babo bangaphambili, abaya kusixelela indlela abaqhubana ngayo kunye nokuba bayathanda ukuba kunye, kodwa ngamanye amaxesha asinanto ingako yokuqhubeka. Emva kokuba ezi zibini zizinzile kwindawo yethu yokuhlala, sichitha usuku okanye ezimbini sijonge indlela ezisebenzisana ngayo kunye nokugqiba ukuba sicinga ukuba kufuneka bahlale kunye. Maxa wambi kuye kucace ukuba bathandana ngokwenene—bayagonana, bakhulisane, badlale kunye baze bachithe ixesha elininzi nomnye okufutshane. Nangona kunjalo, ngamanye amaxesha kunobuqili ngakumbi. Ezinye iikati azikho iikhati ezinkulu, kodwa ziya kuziva zizithembe ngakumbi kumhlobo wazo. Banokuzifihla de umhlobo wabo aphume kwaye aqalise ukudlala, kwaye oko kuya kubabonisa ukuba izinto zikhuselekile kwaye baya kuziva bekhululekile ukusondela emntwini ngento yokudlala. Ngamanye amaxesha, baya kufuna ukutya kuphela ukuba umhlobo wabo ukufuphi. Sikwajonga iiyantlukwano zokuziphatha nangaliphi na ixesha xa kufuneka bohlulwe (ukuba omnye wabo ufuna inkqubo yonyango, okanye ufuna ukubekwa esweni iimpawu zokugula). Ukuba babonakala beneentloni okanye berhoxile, okanye abafuni kutya okanye badlale ngexesha beqhele ukwenza ngalo, luphawu olukhulu lokuba kufuneka bahlale kunye. Ukuba sikhe sathandabuza ukuba ngaba isibini sibopheleleke okanye akunjalo, siyaphazama kwicala lokulumkisa kwaye sibagcine bekunye- baninzi abantu abazimisele ukwamkela iikati ezimbini kwikhaya labo! Ukuthatha iikati ezimbini ngaphezu kwesinye kunokubonakala kusoyikisa, kwaye ukuqwalasela izinto eziphathekayo kubalulekile: Ngaba unayo indawo yeebhokisi zenkunkuma ezaneleyo kwikhaya lakho kwiikati ezimbini? Ngaba ukulungele ukubonelela ngokutya okuphindwe kabini? Nangona kunjalo, kwizinto zemihla ngemihla ezifana nokudlala kunye nokutyebisa, ukuba neekati ezimbini ezithandanayo kudla ngokuba ngumsebenzi OMNCANE-ukuba nenye ikati ngeenxa zonke malunga nobutyebi obungcono onokunikezela! Nokuba abafuni nyani ukudlala okanye ukuwolana, ukuba nomnye okufutshane kunokuba yintuthuzelo enkulu. Ndicinga ukuba sonke sibe nomhlobo ebomini bethu esithanda ukubakho nokuba omnye wenu ubukele umabonwakude kwaye omnye ufunda incwadi- kakuhle, iikati zinokwabelana ngeemvakalelo ezifanayo! Indawo yethu yokuhlala isoloko ineekati esijonge ukuzithatha ngababini- olu lwazi luya kuhlala ludweliswe kwicandelo lazo elithi 'malunga nam' kwiwebhusayithi yethu, kwaye inokufunyanwa ifakwe kwiindawo zazo zokuhlala kwiziko lethu lokuthatha abantwana, ke ukuba re looking to adopt a bounded pair kuya kuba lula ukufumana olo lwazi nokuba uku-intanethi okanye kwindawo yokuhlala!
Ngamana 1, 2024
U-Miss Molly ngumxube we-pittie oneminyaka eli-12 ubudala onobuhlobo, onothando, inja emangalisayo efuna ikhaya elizolileyo lomhlala-phantsi. Andikwazi ukumgcina ngenxa yempilo enzima ekhokelele kumngeni wezindlu, isenza ukuba kube yimfuneko kum ukuba ndifumanele uMolly ikhaya elitsha ngokukhawuleza. Akabuyiselwa ekhaya ngenxa yazo naziphi na iingxaki zokuziphatha. Uqeqeshelwe indlu, uyavana nezinja, uyabathanda abantu, uthambile kwaye uswiti kwaye uya kuba longezo oluhle kulo naliphi na ikhaya. Ukudibana no-Miss Molly nceda uqhagamshelane noFrank ngetekisi okanye ngefowuni (707) 774-4095. Ndicela idiphozithi ye-200 yeedola endiya kuyibuyisela emva kweenyanga ezintandathu ukuba uthatha isigqibo sokuba ululungele usapho lwakho, ukuqinisekisa ukhuseleko kunye nempilo kaMiss Molly. Enkosi ngokuqwalasela le nja imnandi!